Buying an engagement or wedding ring is a big decision.  It is a symbol of your special and exclusive relationship, and marks the start of your marriage ….. the start of your new life together.

Here are some tips for choosing a ring:

- The ring must suit the bride’s hand.  Some widths create the illusion of a broad finger, while other styles can be used to make your fingers look longer and more dainty.

- The ring must suit the bride’s lifestyle.  Some precious stones are more brittle than others, and should preferably not be chosen by a bride who works with her hands often.  Take the bride’s occupation, hobbies and habits into account.

- Some brides prefer to get engaged with a ring designed by their fiances, while others prefer to design it themselves.  A good alternative is to get engaged with the unset precious stone.  This will surprise the bride, and she can also have a say in the design.

- Using colourful stones can give the ring a unique character.

- Engrave the inside of your wedding rings with a special message to each other.

- Decide whether you want your ring designed especially for you.  Some couples find it more convenient to buy a ring from a jeweller’s stock – such a ring is available immediately.  However, if you decide to have the ring designed for you, you know that it is unique and matches your taste exactly.  It is also easier to budget for a ring that is designed especially for you.

- It is important to choose a jeweller who understands you and your ideas to ensure that the ring turns out precisely the way you want it to.  Use a jeweller who will support you in your decisions, but who also has a creative touch.

- Rather buy from a jeweller who belongs to the Jewellery Council of South Africa.  This certification offers protection to consumers.

- Invest in some lovely earrings or a necklace.  It will complete the bride’s outfit in the most elegant way possible and these jewels will become family heirlooms.

- Insure your rings as soon as possible.  Accidents do happen, no matter how careful you may be.

- Try to take your jewels to your jeweller every six months to keep them sparkling and beautiful, and have the jeweller check your settings to make sure that the stones are still securely mounted and do any repairs necessary.